Capítulo 947: Chapter 639: Later Generation Theory (Part 2)

She’s analyzing based on the portrayals of university students from movies and TV shows she has watched from that era. Moreover, even though Zhao Qihui says she’ll listen to others’ opinions, she’s already deeply infatuated with Jiang Wenyuan. It’s not something that can be dissuaded with just a few words.

Their ages are right there; although Zhao Qihui seeks their opinions and might be influenced by them, giving up because of their views is impossible.

After wavering for a while and making up with Jiang Wenyuan, Zhao Qihui will definitely grow distant from her and Luo Xiaoqiong. If it really happens, they might never grow close again in this lifetime.

Why do something you know won’t work out and won’t result in any good?

She lacks experience, but isn’t it like not having seen a pig run yet knowing how pork tastes? Descriptions in movies, TV, and novels are all based on life. Besides, from most examples she’s seen, she knows that when a woman is really deeply in love, she can’t listen to anyone.

Also, when a woman says she’s hesitant about a man or has complaints, never take it seriously. You have to observe her unintentional behaviors; that’s where her true feelings lie.

“So, even though it’s obvious that they’re not suitable, just let them be?” Luo Xiaoqiong said, clearly unwilling.

“Yes, even though it seems they’re not suitable, you can only let them be. When one day she realizes the unsuitability, realizes she can’t endure it anymore, naturally, she’ll make a decision.”

“Why wait until she’s hurt and regrets when you can clearly avoid it earlier?”

“The problem is, you can’t avoid it.” Chuxia put her arm around her shoulder, “Think about those runaway couples in our village, didn’t everyone see their incompatibility? But what did they do despite that?”

With Chuxia saying this, Luo Xiaoqiong was left speechless.

Indeed, a few years ago, there were a few runaway couples in the village. Apart from one couple whose elders had grudges, everyone else clearly saw their incompatibility. But it was precisely because their families noticed this incompatibility and opposed vehemently that they ended up running away together.

After really running away together and living for a while, character mismatches began to surface. Now, two of them have turned against each other completely, like enemies.

If they had known earlier, would they still have chosen that path? It’s just that there’s no “knowing earlier” in this world, and even if others told you, you might not believe it.

Everyone has to walk their own path, miss their own opportunities, to really think about what’s right and what’s wrong. Some people might walk the wrong path all their life, until the day they leave this world, never knowing where they went wrong.

“Ah!” With a heavy sigh, Luo Xiaoqiong looked at Chuxia, “I realize, the two of us are really lucky, or maybe I should say, being friends with you makes me feel lucky. Because I find you really know what kind of person you want and what kind of life you want to live.”

Chuxia’s face went slightly dark: “Don’t put such a high hat on me, I’m not used to it.”

“I’m telling the truth.” Luo Xiaoqiong glared at her, “Why be modest with me? Deep down, you’re beaming, aren’t you?”

“See, there you go, thinking evil of me!” Chuxia said, amused, as she put her arm around her shoulder. “Everyone has times they can’t figure things out, I’m no exception.

It’s just that I’m the only child at home, and you know what kind of life my parents lived before, so my goal all along has been to make their lives better.

Marrying Zhou Mikang was an accident, but it was a good one. Because of meeting him, my life became a lot easier. However, I’m someone with a strong sense of insecurity.

I know if many people found out who I married, they would think I don’t appreciate my good fortune. I could clearly live a happy life, supporting my husband and teaching children. So why bother trying to work hard on things that don’t pay off?

But, in this world, trusting yourself is more secure than trusting anyone else. I, of course, believe Zhou Mikang would always protect me, yet if I can help him, if he doesn’t need to worry about taking care of us all the time, isn’t that better than fully depending on him?

Never hope a man will never tire of you in this life. If you set no expectations for yourself, when a day comes where someone forces you to make concessions, it’ll be too late for everything.”

“Chuxia, where did you learn all these ideas from?” Luo Xiaoqiong looked at her puzzlingly. “The way you say it, it seems quite sad for women, doesn’t it?

Of course, I’m not saying I don’t want to work, but after a woman marries, she has to take care of the family and kids, right? If while taking care of family and kids, she also has to excel more than men at work, how can she possibly manage that?

And accidentally end up being forced by others to give way, why does it sound like concubines fighting for position in a palace from the old days to me? Chuxia, have you been reading too many of those novels lately?”

Chuxia patted her, “Get lost, I’m not talking to you anymore, we’re home now.” How did she get so excited while speaking, bringing in theories from the future? In this society, everyone still values family and marriage greatly. Although there are splits for those who can’t make it work, compared to the future’s divorce rate, it’s pretty negligible. As for mistresses, they’re even less likely to have any chance, so how could Luo Xiaoqiong understand her thoughts? (To be continued. If you like this work, feel free to visit Qidian (qidian.com) to vote for recommendations and monthly votes. Your support is my greatest motivation. Mobile users, please visit m.qidian.com to read.)