"It''s all right. It''s a normal little problem." Wu Mian pulled over a chair and sat in front of Tao Yunwei. He looked at Tao Yunwei''s eyes and said slowly.

    "Small problems?" Tao Yunwei was dumb.

    "Yes, about 7% of people will have this problem, light or heavy." Wu Mian narrowed his eyes and tried to express his goodwill to make himself look harmless to people and animals. "What do you need to go to the bathroom to urinate smoothly? Tell me briefly."

    "..." Tao Yunwei stared at Wu Mian in a daze. He didn''t know why the cute doctor saw himself through at a glance.

    The distance between the two was a little close. Wu Mian spoke closely to the patient for the first time after entering the shelter hospital. After all, patients have some psychological disorders. If they let others know, it will certainly have an impact on their condition.

    "Your condition is the so-called" urinary shame ". The medical term is" situational dysuria ". It''s normal, really." Wu Mian sincerely said, "when I was in college, a classmate in my roomhad this problem. At that time, we said that his prostate should be seen."

    "..." Tao Yunwei continued speechless.

    "But after taking similar courses, we all know that we are wrong. The idea of being ashamed of urinating in public is easy to be laughed at, but it is more frustrating and common than we think.

    Situational dysuria is considered the second most common symptom of social anxiety disorder, second only to public speaking. "

    "Have you made a speech?" Wu Mian continued.

    Tao Yunwei shook his head.

    "Yes, many people can''t speak neatly after they get on the stage, and their brains are blank."

    What about the speech? An idea flashed in Tao Yunwei''s mind, but it just appeared and then disappeared.

    There is nothing wrong with the cute doctor in front of him.

    Tao Yunwei''s mood gradually relaxed. He looked at Wu Mian''s narrowed eyes and knew that the doctor was smiling at himself.

    It''s just a pity that I can''t see his smile. I think it should be very warm.

    Several guesses. Because the big yellow rabbit''s ears kept shaking, the bad guess turned into smoke. Tao Yunwei subconsciously felt Wu Mian''s kindness.

    "I guess you don''t remember when you first had urinary shame." Wu Mian continued to "chat", "generally speaking, similar situations originate from always being afraid of other people''s evaluation and not allowing yourself to have some problems and problems.

    At first, urination is often interrupted or difficult due to occasional reasons such as crowded urination places, being urged during urination, pushing and shoving by others, accidental shock, or being noticed by others occasionally. "

    Every word of Wu Mian spoke to Tao Yunwei''s heart.

    "Because I am too worried that the urination process will be found or urged by others, I pay great attention to the urination process. The more eager I want to excrete urine, the more nervous and anxious I am, resulting in the bladder sphincter not being dominated by will, and the more unable I can excrete urine."

    "It''s like a speech. Standing on the stage and thinking too much."

    "I don''t have the experience of situational dysuria, but I have the experience of speaking. Do you need to introduce it to you?"

    "Speech? Have you ever made a speech? Did you go to college?" Tao Yunwei asked.

    "No, when I was in college, I had seven years of undergraduate and postgraduate education. After only two and a half years, I was exceptionally admitted as his doctor by my teacher. I didn''t have the opportunity to participate in various school activities," Wu Mian said.

    "..." Tao Yunwei stared at the "monster" in front of him. He didn''t know whether what he said was true or false.

    Tao Yunwei is a junior in senior high school. He has also considered the medical major of continuous study for seven years, but his score is very high. Many schools also have the last elimination system. It is said that the elimination rate is not generally high.

    And in front of me, this cute doctor has gone directly to doctoral school for more than two years?

    He''s bragging.

    "In the second year of my doctoral study, my teacher gave me the opportunity to teach undergraduate students. He sat down and listened to me." Wu Mian didn''t seem to notice Tao Yunwei''s mood and said to himself, "you don''t know, my teacher was 88 years old and sat under the stage to listen to me. I had the pressure of three rooms and one hall at that time."

    "Uh... Really?"

    "Really." Wu Mian said, "the palms are sweating. I should have recited what to say, but as soon as I stood on the podium, my mind was blank. A large amount of adrenaline was secreted, and my whole body entered an emergency state. My muscles were tense and even began to tremble."

    "What about that?" Tao Yunwei gradually substituted it in with Wu Mian''s tone.

    "At that time, I also hardened my head to give a lecture. As soon as I opened my mouth, the female students stood up and applauded... Just like the concert, the just calmed mood collapsed directly." Wu Mian recalled the events at that time, feeling embarrassed and interesting.

    "Stand up and applaud?" Tao Yunwei looked at the cute hospital manager in front of him.

    "Yes, I am the school grass, everywhere I go." Wu Mian said with a smile.

    "Doctor, you''re bragging."

    "I really don''t brag," said Wu Mian. "I''m so eye-catching wherever I am."

    Then he shook his head and the big rabbit''s ears flickered.

    "Er..."

    "Later, I remembered the famous American writer and speaker Mark Twain, who said that there are only two kinds of speakers in the world, one is particularly nervous, and the other is pretending not to be nervous.

    Do I study medicine? I know the source of tension.

    Tension is a human instinct. In our brain, there is an amygdala, which is responsible for scanning the dangers of the surrounding environment.

    Imagine our ancestors walking in the wilderness of ancient times. Suddenly, something moved in the grass. A pair of fierce eyes appeared in the dark forest or cave.

    At this time, the amygdala in your brain scans the danger and sends a signal to you. If you don''t want to be the food of the beast, you have to be nervous and fight it, the kind of life and death. "

    Tao Yunwei listened to God. Wu Mian''s gentle words seemed to have a force that led him into that tense mood, and even his urine became much lighter.

    "Whether you fight with a tiger or turn around and run, either choice will enter a state called" amygdala hijacking ", which will affect the prefrontal lobe of your brain. You will dilate your pupils, secrete hormones, sweat your palms and stiff your body. This is to make you less blood in case of injury."

    "At that time, I regarded hundreds of pairs of eyes under the stage as a little tiger."

    "Er... So good? Will it be more nervous?" Tao Yunwei entered the picture outlined by Wu Mian and asked nervously.