CHAPTER 775: CHAPTER 749: RAISING CHILDREN IS NOT AN EASY JOB

Jiang Xin felt helpless. She wasn’t stupid; she could clearly see what Qin Dazhuang was thinking.

No kidding, Qin Dazhuang has changed so much compared to before over the past few years.

Back then, although Qin Dazhuang didn’t gamble, he wasn’t a responsible man either. He was the kind of person who went with the flow and lived a stable life, which you could say was honest and grounded, but in another light, lacked ambition.

Jiang Xin, however, was different. After she started doing business, her perspective changed, her mindset changed, and what she saw in life made her have different expectations for the future.

If he were still the Qin Dazhuang from before, he wouldn’t have caught Jiang Xin’s eye at all, but surprisingly, Qin Dazhuang has also made great strides.

The changes in Qin Dazhuang now truly come as a delightful surprise.

"Not today! My mom wants me to take the kids home for a meal. My uncle has come back, so everyone is gathering. Let’s do it next week."

Jiang Xin knows that Qin Dazhuang looks forward to taking his daughters out every week. She doesn’t want Qin Dazhuang to be disappointed. After all, he is their father; she never wanted the kids to hate their father.

Her heart can’t help but be conflicted; Qin Dazhuang’s changes really leave people puzzled.

The divorce back then was unavoidable, but the current Qin Dazhuang is quite astonishing.

Not only doesn’t he gamble or hit people, but he’s reverted to being the old Qin Dazhuang, and he’s become even better than before.

He’s patient, gentle, tolerant, and responsible.

And he has the ability to do many things.

Jiang Xin doesn’t know what she truly wants.

"Your uncle’s back. Okay, then take the kids back to gather with the family. It’s no big deal; I’ll come pick them up next week. Wait a moment, I’ll go fetch the stuff in the car. I bought some stationery and clothes for the kids.

Also, some nutritional supplements for Mom... and for Aunt and Uncle. Originally, I planned to take them to them afterward. Since they aren’t coming over, I’ll just leave it with you."

Qin Dazhuang hurried outside. After a while, he returned carrying two large bags, one containing stationery, snacks, and clothes for the kids.

The other bag was filled with nutritional supplements.

Jiang Xin complained, "Why did you buy them these things again? You buy the kids’ clothes every week, but they can’t possibly wear all of them. They’re growing fast. Within a few months, they’ve outgrown them; many new clothes can’t even be worn before they’re too small."

Qin Dazhuang is spoiling the daughters too much.

"It’s because the kids are growing too fast that I have to buy them more clothes. I know, next time I won’t waste money like this."

Qin Dazhuang also knows he’s spoiling his daughters excessively.

But he can’t help it; when he sees those clothes and pretty stationery, he instinctively thinks of his daughters and can’t resist buying them.

Every time, it’s buying, buying, buying. Normally, it’s the mother who buys clothes for daughters, but he, as the father, the only thing he can do for the kids is this.

"The kids are growing up, you need to be mindful of how you do things. Buying so many things, the kids are being spoiled. They don’t cherish things anymore, boasting to teachers and classmates about how great their stationery is and how nice their clothes are.

And they’re not as focused on studying, always comparing clothes and food with others. If this continues, the kids are surely heading down the wrong path. It’s for their own good; you should really think about how to teach them.

We can’t just pamper them; if they grow up accustomed to this, they’ll develop habits of aiming high but achieving low, which will be problematic when interacting with others in the future.

Moreover, we’re just an ordinary family, you have to teach the kids frugality. Don’t forget what happened to my grandpa and grandma; it was because of my uncle’s lavish spending that misfortune struck, attracted by wealth. Think about it; if you truly want what’s best for them, you should teach them to be low-key."

Jiang Xin felt uneasy without saying this; mainly because the two daughters have changed too much.

The teachers have already communicated with her; in terms of studying, the kids aren’t as diligent as before and often compare their food and clothing with classmates. If this continues, the kids will definitely take a wrong turn.

Qin Dazhuang was filled with regret and genuinely admitted his mistake after hearing this.

"It’s my fault. I didn’t fully understand what to do; I just thought since the kids aren’t with me, I should spoil them a bit more. I didn’t consider other aspects. Rest assured, I know what to do in the future."

Seeing Qin Dazhuang accept the advice, Jiang Xin’s tone softened quite a bit.

"Alright, hurry up and leave. I’ll go pick them up from school soon and head there directly."

Jiang Xin took the keys and got in the car.

She bought a Xiali last year.

Sometimes, delivering goods to customers is more convenient with this car.

Qin Dazhuang watched Jiang Xin leave, stood by the car door, and sighed. He hadn’t thought things through and even messed up educating the kids.

If he continued like this, the two kids might become spoiled, acting like wealthy young ladies. The problem is, what kind of family are they from? Although the couple has money now, they’re still just ordinary folks; they can’t raise their kids like that.

The kids are young now and don’t care, but when they grow up, whether interacting with others or marrying into a family...

Could he expect the whole family to treat them like princesses? Definitely not.

Human interaction can’t be measured solely by money.

Qin Dazhuang has been through a lot, he’s seen it clearly long ago.

The important thing for a person is character, not something measured by money.

If the future son-in-law is after the daughters and their family’s money, then his character probably isn’t good.

If he doesn’t care about money and values character and personality, the two daughters must be properly taught.

From any perspective, a daughter’s character is most important.

He drove back to the hotpot restaurant.

The dinner service hadn’t ended yet; he originally planned to bring the kids back for dinner, then take them home, help with their homework, and chat with them.

Tomorrow, he planned to take the kids to the amusement park, so for these two days, he had told the restaurant manager he wouldn’t be coming.

But with nowhere to go right now, naturally, he returned to the restaurant.

Upon entering, he saw the manager rushing over in a panic.

"Xiao Zhang, why are you so nervous? Did something happen at the restaurant?"

Judging by Xiao Zhang’s look, something definitely happened.

In a low voice, Xiao Zhang said, "Boss, an old lady and a woman came over just now, insisting they’re your mom and your sister. They’ve been causing a commotion at the door, demanding to see you. I sent someone to your house to find you, but you weren’t home. I didn’t know what to do.

Because the old lady insisted I take two hundred yuan from the counter, saying they hired a car to get here, but I didn’t agree. They’re both stirring up trouble there."

Qin Dazhuang’s heart sank.